Thursday, September 25, 2008
The Game Doesn't Change, Just the PLAYERS
Back in the 1950's there were more courting where men had more respect for women. Couples were happy with each other so there wasnt much thought for cheating. Men cared for and respected their households and contributed as much as they can. Women loved and catered to their men as they knew it was their duty. Most women were dedicated housewives who would be embarrassed of the mere thought of cheating on their hard-working husbands. So what happened? The men today do not possess the same morales as in the early days. They use and abuse women to the point where it is gutwrenching and heartbreaking; and because of those wicked men , they are the reason good women have turned bad!! More women are becoming mean heartless users and/or over-sexed nymphomaniacs than ever before!! Some have done things to men to pay them back for the hurt they've cause them. If you are one of those women who gruesomely mistreated a man or yourself because of a broken heart, let us hear your story.
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personally i am tired of men. i have given up on them after i drew the last straw with my disgusting husband of 10 years. He mistreated and degraded me. He caused me to mistreat and degrade myself. After 6 years of marriage, and two baby boys i had gained an uncontrollable tremendous amount of weight. My husband called me horrible names and made fun of me around his friends. He eventually stopped sleeping with me. i cried myself to sleep many nights waiting for him to come home. i felt unworthy and ugly. I was longing for the feeling of love and appreciation; longing for someone to tell me that i am beautiful. i started hanging out late and sleeping with men at bars in order to feel loved and wanted. i knew it was wrong but it made me feel desirable and lively. Whether these men were truthful or not, they were giving me something my husband wasnt. i thought cheating with all those men would be a payback to him. I was only hurting myself and my children. so i left. When friends and family ask me why i divorced him i'd tell them he suffered with E.D. (erectile dysfunction) and i begged them not to let him know that i told them that. He soon became the laughing stock of the neighborhood.
yeah, we all know the game doesnt change and never will men, nor women for that matter. I'm 35, had 4 long relationships, no kids. i've watched those 4 boyfriends cheat on me, and my sister's boyfriends cheated on them, my co-worker's, cousins, mother's boyfriends etc. i came to one conclusion that 95% OF MEN CHEAT. and they seem to be loving it. So i've made up my mind to never ever be faithful to another man for as long as i live. I actually realize that having a bitchy, non emotional attitude attracts men to me. but i treat all of them like the shit that they are.. sorry :-(
this is most true. its so unfair that men get to be men without getting a bad rep.
i keyed up my ex boyfriends brand new benz and put sugar and milk in his gas tank. lol lol
when i broke up with my b/f who used to physically abuse me and cheat i hired a few young guys to beat him up. and i am willfully dating his younger brother. who is much nicer anyway.
i once put nair in my mans shaving cream bottle...it was hilarious.. for me at least.
mz FASHIONISTA
HEY IF I CATCH A MAN CHEATING.. I LET HIM KNOW WELL NOW IMA GO GET ME A LIL ON THE SIDE 2.. MEN DONT LIKE 2 KNOW THAT SOMEONE ELSE BEATIN THEIR PUM PUM..
IN THESE MATTERS, U GOTTA THINK LIKE A MAN.. THEY HAVE DIFFERENT WOMEN 4 DIFFERENT NEEDS.. SO WHY CANT A WOMAN.. USE THEM B4 THEY USE U!
BUT THESE ARE LIFE'S EXPERIENCES WHAT WE ALL O THRU.. DONT B SO BITTER THAT U CANT OPEN UR HEART 2 ANYONE.. ALWAYS REMEMBER IF GET RID OF ONE FIND U A REPLACEMENT FAST..
I would pray for him... To die a lonely, horney, needy ole man
I think if you guys stopped playing with boys, you might not hate men so much.
Sleep with a guy before marriage and you're almost guaranteed to have a BOY in your life, not a man.
A man respects and waits. A man treats you well because you've earned his respect through your actions of treating YOURSELF well.
There's too many of you out there treating yourselves like unpaid whores. Sleeping with guys for free and then wonder why you get used and abused.
If you're going to sleep with a guy who has no intention of marrying you because there's no ring and date for said marriage, at least have the decency to get paid for it. At least then you have something to show for what you've done. Otherwise you're used and discarded and all you have left if heart ache. NOT good.
Have some respect girls! No need to do all this crazy stuff. Treat yourselves with the utmost respect for yourselves and your bodies. Treat them like the heavenly temples that they are and I guarantee you'll find yourselves a man.
However, if your thing is playing with boys (aka players, studs, etc.) then I say, that's great, but shut up about it. You can't whine when you caused your OWN problem! Be smarter next time.
whatever.. you women deserve exactly what you get.. cause u know just what your getting into before u get into it...
I had to chirp in. first let's all stop lying to ourselves. Men and women cheat for reasons unto them only. If your the victim make sure you never dated a person in a relationship first before your emotions come fluttering out. We can't say or judge everything the same. If your lucky to find a true loving person, remember every bad relationship led you to that person. If that person you found out lied to you and you found you lost ground in life. Shame on you for not balancing life and taking care of you. Remember after all this 'Bitching', real lives are being shattered with real problems!!!
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for all my women out there who blames a man for how they are treated and blame a man for all the whoring activities that they do... you gyals ARE WEAK AND UNWILLING TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE.... comparing todays man to yesterday man is kool... but compare todays women to yesterdays women and what you see... you see more women goingout to work and getting their careers online... nothing is wrong with that.. but a man use to come howm to a clean house and a home cook meal back in the day.. now he goes to mr chan on the corner... and the house is a mess because both of you are out working.... and god forbid a man to stay home and do the house chores.. a woman would say i want a working man.. i ant taking care of no man.. wake up and smell the coffee its a domino effect... don't expect one thing to change and everything stays the same...
not defending the idiotic men out there but for every idiotic man there is a woman that is equal to him ... sad but through.. we need to start looking in the mirror and make a change inward first....
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